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تحریر کردہ: Mazhar

زمرہ: Uncategorised

شائع شدہ: 01 ستمبر 2025

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PUT BUSINESS SUPPLIERS ON A SECOND SITE - PUT LINKS TO BUSINESSES ON THAT SITE BUT ASLO COPY LINK TO MENU ITEMS ON MAIN SITE POITING TO THOSE BUSINESS CATEGORIES

This way businesses can register sperately and cannot interferee with marriage users.

ALSO PUT PARENTS THERE TOO - PLUS THE THEY CAN COMMUNICATE AND CHAT AND MAKE VIDEO CALLS TO EACH OTHER

ALSO PUT MEETINGS _ EVENTS ON THIS SITE!!!!

AS PARENTS CANT ACCESS OR MESSAGE ANYONE AND JUST BROWSE LET THEM REGISTER ON SECOND SITE - UNLESS THEY ARE REGISTERING ON SOMEONES BEHALF!

A great example:

https://demo.dj-extensions.com/joomla-templates/dj-wedding/#

look below and see services for weddings. Great layout!!!!

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تحریر کردہ: Mazhar

زمرہ: Uncategorised

شائع شدہ: 25 اگست 2025

مشاہدات: 1

IF WE ARE REQUESTING MANDOTORY PARENTAL INVOLVEMENT, MAKE REGISTRATION FREE.

ALSO HAVE A MORE REFINED REVIEW MEMBERSHIP consider charging £49 with added features. Like additional SUPERSTAR & 5star features available with REVIEW MEMBERSHIPS

Unlike commercial 'dating sites', we are not madly profit driven. Our ethos is that helping someone in the stressful process of finding a partner should not place a cost burdon on them. However, if we were completely free we would leave ourselves and our members open to abuse by all sorts of unsavory characters. We understand looking for a partner takes time and you do not need the worry of high monthly or annual costs. So we offer 3 types of membership which will not dent your pocket. Everything is transparent without any 'hidden charges' after you join.

1. FREE MEMBERSHIP.
   There are NO Charges for registering, and *connecting with people.
   You can message, chat, voice and video call - all for FREE.
   There are no frivellous things such as 'likes' which are cheaply designed to boost one's ego. Having hundreds of 'Likes' and never making contact does nothing for those who are 'serious' about finding someone. Here you simply login, search and connect with *whoever you want. Whenever you want. There are no limitations either. Most 'other' sites allow free membership then limit you on what you can do. Or ask you for expensive upgrades. Not here. We allow you to contact *anyone. Your access is UNLIMITED - for FREE! And yes, if you get harrrased or don't want contact with anyone, just block them.
   
   *The only restriction is if an individual has chosen only to be contactable by someone who is 'verified'. Candidates from overseas will have access restrictions and are strongly advised to be verified. See Review Membership below. 
   
   Free membership is open to everyone. However, to prevent abuse, we have a rigorous registration procedure where we screen every single person to verify they are who they say they are. Yes we ask a lot of questions on your profile, but this is designed to deter those who are not serious. Plus of course, we insist on your parent's or guardians involvement. Someone responsible needs to know you are here -  and why. It's part of our islamic tradition and culture.
   
   
   
2. REVIEW MEMBERSHIP.
   This is optional, but highly recommended for everyone - especially for overseas candidates, who's ip geolocations we monitor. 
   
   We will review your personality and character based on your profile answers and give you a character and personality rating from 1 to 5 stars. We also review your profile and rate that too. We use the very latest AI technology, overseen by real people. A 5 Star review on your Personality or Character could raise your status and credibitlity immensley, and increase your chances of finding a perfect partner quickly. The review membership currently stands at £35 - which essentially covers the reviewing process. It is renewable after12 months when the ratiings will be expire. If you make changes to your profile during memership, AI will pick this up and, if necessary, adjust your ratings
   
   Feel embarrarssed about making the first move or think they may instantly reject you? Review Members can just click 'Ask Aunty'. One of our team will make the introduction for you. Or if you've been blocked and want asecond chance... jusk ask Auntijee for another try.
   
   Reviewed members also get a prestigious  'VERFIFIED MEMBER' Badge, so your potential partner knows you are serious. A verified badge also allows you to connect with those members who have chosen ONLY to be contacted by verified members. Females in particular would feel more comfortabel knowing a man was verified.
   
   (???WANT ALL THIS FOR FREE? We won't charge you a penny IF you donate £10 or whatever you can afford, to your local masjid or charity. Simply send us proof by way of a reciept from the charity or a reference code form one of our designated masjids nationwide. Even a photo of you dropping money into their charity box will do. If they are not registered with us and don't have our codes, simply ask them to contact us).
   
   CAUTION: You are strongly advised not to communicate with someone from overseas UNLESS they are verified and you are completely comfortable in replying to them. When someone contacts you, you will always see their country name listed next to thier username.
   
   
3. PROFESSIONAL & EXECUTIVE MEMBERSHIP.
   This includes all the above features and is designed for a more professional audience. Additional features include: Extra fields to ask more direct questions; A choice of display templates to project your image with flair; Plus an ability to promote yourself by highlighting your profile so it stands out, or bringing it to the top of lists; The costs are currently at £69 per year.
   
   Please note: Membership differences are purely for listing and visual display purposes. Whichever membership you choose, you can still use ALL the features freely without any hidden costs or pressure for you to upgrade.
   
   
   ADDITIONAL SERVICES
   We also offer AI enhanced 'Personal Matchmaking Services'. These are highly focussed on helping you succeed. We have teams of auntijees scanning profiles and clicking AI buttons! Please refer to those for costs.
   
   WHY ARE BUSINESSES ON HERE?
   After you find your ideal partner, you'll face the next big challenge - getting married! Our 'Supplier Network' section will help you source everything you need. From outfits, event venues, beauticians and caterers, to jewellery suppliers and more. Even if you are not a member, you can check them out whenever you need to. Suppliers are totally independent from us and we don't make any commercial gain when you buy from them direct. No commissions. No selling fees. We simply provide a platform for you to reach them quickly and stress-free, when you are planning for your big day.
   
   Please note: Your privacy matters to us. Business Members cannot see or access your profile. They can register on this site as a business, but they cannot view profiles of members looking for a marriage partner. We also vet every business member too. By monitoring their activity 24/7, we make every effort to ensure no one is there to sell you a dream which doesn't exit.
   
   
   

Our main funding comes from the generosity of a private family who went through all the struggles of finding suitable partners for their own children. Like them, we believe that helping our brothers and sisters navigate through the difficult process of finding partners and completing half of their deen, should be driven by morals and not purely by commercial motives. We don't need millions of members paying high subscription fees. Just millions of happy hearts.

However, like any charitable organisation, we do have operating costs. To mitigate some of these we have recently introduced nominal charges shown above. Even these can be cancelled for certain individuals if you simply contact us.

Finally, we are immensly grateful to local businesses, advertisers, sponsors and private donors, who also believe that our cause is a noble one. Their continued support will ensure this site continues to grow for the benefit of our communities.

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تحریر کردہ: Mazhar

زمرہ: Uncategorised

شائع شدہ: 25 اگست 2025

مشاہدات: 1

To show or not to show.

notice to men ★

“This sister has chosen modesty by keeping her photo private. Respect her choice, and if you’re truly interested, get to know her through her values and goals.”

STAR RATING - put stars on everyone who hides a face. 3 to 5 star from field superimposed on hidden photos

The key question here is that in the 'actual process' of seeking a marriage partner, can a female show her face to a potential suitor?

In your day to day life you have a choice whether to completely cover up or show your face in public. Yes, you dress modestly when you go out, but islamically should you show your face to a complete stranger when looking for a partner?

In our humble opinion yes, in Islam a girl is allowed to show her face to a potential suitor 'during the marriage process'. This is based on authentic Islamic teachings and supported by scholars across the major schools of thought, especially Hanafi, Maliki, and Shafi’i.

One important hadith used in this matter is:

The Prophet ﷺ said:
“When one of you proposes to a woman, if he is able to look at what will induce him to marry her, he should do so.”
— (Abu Dawood, 2082; also reported by Ahmad and others; graded Hasan)

This shows that seeing the woman, including her face, is permissible and even encouraged, as it helps with making a decision that leads to a stable marriage.

The following hadith is highly relevant too:

The Prophet ﷺ said:
“A woman is married for four things: her wealth, her lineage, her beauty, and her religion. So marry the one with religion, may your hands be rubbed with dust [i.e., may you prosper].”
— (Bukhari & Muslim)

This hadith acknowledges that beauty is a valid reason someone might choose a spouse — though the Prophet ﷺ clearly prioritizes religious commitment (deen).

So for someone to consider a woman's beauty (i.e., her face) in the process is natural and allowed. The Prophet ﷺ did not forbid looking; rather, he regulated it with modesty and intention.

According to the majority of scholars, especially from the Hanafi, Maliki, and Shafi’i schools, it is even permissible for a suitor to see the face and hands of the woman he is considering for marriage.

We acknowledge that the school of thought you follow may differ and we respect your choice of hiding your photos. But being completely hidden may prolong the time it takes for you to find a marriage partner.

Whether you wish to show your face or not is your choice. Our options of 'show', 'thumbnail' and 'hide' give you that control.

However, we recomend the 'THUMBNAIL' option and this is why:

1. Being completely hidden may put you in a disadvantage. If potential suitors cannot see you, they have little incentive to contact you. Even someone perfect for you, may simply pass you by. So give them a reason to be interested in you. Give them at least a subtle and visual hint of yourself to spark their interest. A thumbnail image will do exactly this.
   
   
2. Being completely visible with multiple large photos may attract the wrong types. On common match making sites the majority simply swipe through images without regard to the real person behind each photo. Everyone casually flicks through, looking for the next pretty face. There is little dignity in this. For you or for them. We are not a match making site and we want your future partner to focus on YOU as a person and not as an object to glare at, or to compare with hundreds of others. Thumbnails remove this incentive, especially for men you do not know.
   
   
3. Haya  حياء is incredibly important, especially to our sisters, their parents and guardians. Thumbnails give a potential suitor just a hint of you and whilst respecting your worth and dignity. Small enough not to give anyone an incentive to flick though. And just visible enough to give a real potential suitor a reason to be ineterested enough to contact you.
   
   
4. Natuarlly, when you feel comfortable with someone who is interested in you, you can easily reveal more, specifically for their eyes, by switching from thumbnails to full size images. You can choose exaclty who sees you and for how long. This puts you total control.

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تحریر کردہ: Mazhar

زمرہ: Uncategorised

شائع شدہ: 25 اگست 2025

مشاہدات: 1

AT TOP OF ITEM PAGE:

GIVE TITLE

PERSONALITY and CHARACTER

RE-NAME PROFILE AS BIO

RENAME ADD ARTICLE AS - PROFILE

PUT MENU LINKS AT TOP OF PAGE OPENING UP INFO MODULS.

PUT INFO FOR EACH FIELD OR ITEM OR HELP IN MODULS. CONSIDER A HELP DOPDOWN  WITH LINKS TO THESE MODULS (not necessarily as a menu item but actually on top of profile edit and product edit form pages

example on match.com:
On Match, dating profiles are very detailed. You can find matches using the criteria search or just browse through the array of members’ profiles.

we could say:
On Hayatum profiles are very detailed. Think about it. Everyone goes the extra mile when applying for a new job. Isn't looking for the best partner equally as important? It takes effort to find out as much as you can about your future partner. And that works both ways. So we simply ask you put the effort in and answer in-depth profile questions as much as you can. That's if you're serious of course.

Too Many Questions?

Why so many questions?   (modul header)

Being  serious about finding an ideal partner takes effort and not simply stating your age and a few details. You need to build a more realistic profile which gives the reader an insight into your character and personality. This enables them to judge you better. Plus it gives you an opportunity to air your views before giving anyone an opportunity to ask difficult or serious questions later.

Whatsmore, we use in-house AI (artifical Intelligent) in our personalised matching services (Optional). Yes, we have Auntijees who do things manually but are geniouses using technology - we call them AI auntijees! So the more questions you answer, the better the matched profiles. But be careful, if you tick every check box, then our system is clever enough to ask, why? Ticking that you 'pray 5 times a day' and then clicking 'only seeking someone wealthy', and our system will again question, why?. So just be sensible with your expectations and answer carefully, honestly and accurately

Qusetions have been compiled after consulation with focus groups which include: parents; religious leaders; Individuals (male and female). The indivuals include those who are now happily married, plus those who have tried unsuccesfully for long periods of time, or who have had major issues with dating sites..

SECURITY AND VETTING

Its all part of our security process

Gives those who are not suitable a tougher time during registration

Gives a complete picture of you and reflects your personality in more detail than a simple photo and a few words

ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE
We use the latest AI technologies for precision matching. This is why we ask so many questions about your personality on your profile.